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3 hour ago The Fat Lady Sang -Divorce is final !

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I'm a free woman yet I feel like there is a movie of the memories of my married life playing in my head.What did you do the day your divorce was final?
FrmDeb2U
FrmDeb2U
Mine isn't final... but I've heard of people having parties to celebrate.
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Took a nap that made me drool.
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I was relieved. It was such a long grueling battle I just sat around. I was relieved but shell shocked too. Congrats!
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I called all my friends and family, met a friend for lunch, ran into my priest from church at the restaurant, went shopping for new shoes, had dinner with my children, went to practice, then my divorce care group, then met friends at a bar for drinks. It was a grand day!
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Nothing in particular, it was rather like getting a Diploma through the post a few months after passing the exam.

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Well, I had been separated for almost two years so basically it was just a paper. But I did go out and party...got way to drunk! But I did have a great time. Your divorce may be final but your feelings will never be final and that's the hard part.
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Went on my first disaster of a date!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Congratulations to you!!

Mine isn't final yet - something to look forward to.
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made a few calls and went to work...

What a life *sigh*... Still waiting to celebrate
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Bump
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And bump again
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm waiting for mine in the mail.

Not sure what I'll do.
I'm pretty sure it will involve a few of the girls and copious amounts of alcohol.
JennyN
JennyN
I went on a long weekend of shopping!!!! Retail therapy! :o) And I did it with my girls, had a BLAST!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
What is this divorce week, feels like everyone is getting a divorce buy me. Congratulations and enjoy your freedom. I am never getting divorced its just going to go on and on and never end. Thats what it feels like.
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