background. i joined group in oct 10. have not been in touch in months.here is the deal. my ex 23 yrs married two kids,left for her boyfriend in sept .divorce final in jan 11. no lawyers friendly enough divorce.we split all the bills down the middle even though she makes 10k more a year than i do.fair enough.our house has been for sale since oct. 3 offers that were not good.she has been giving me half of the mortgage payments until we sell the house. thia month she moved into a new apt and with deposits for she could not give me anything. also her boyfriend who bought her a new car in dec got layed off. she has been good about paying me every month but now i see problems for the immediate future.i can just get by without her half of the payments if i really skrimp. the listing on the house expires in june and i just might wait a few years until th emarket comes back. i know she is not holding up her end of the divorce decree but i will not get lawyers involved. advice is appreciated. thanks. i really believe she is trying and im giving her the benefit of the doubt but i dont want to take her to court
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