Hi there! I joined this group three years ago when I found out my husband was having an affair. I feel almost stupid but three years later he has a two year old son with her and still can not tell her that he is staying with me. First off she tricked him into getting her pregnant by telling him she was still on the pill (which she had gone off of). Then she told him to walk away from his son that she would raise him and never come after him for support. I don't know if I did the right thing but I encouraged him to stay in his sons life (you don't mess with children like that). Anyway it has been three years of a roller coaster. I have held it together as my 13 year old daughter loves her daddy and family life very much. I am at a point though where if he doesn't stand up to this other woman that I have to end my marriage. Am I better right now to let him talk to me about things that go on (how she manipulates him) or should I kind of shut him out and tell him he can't talk to me about that situation? He talks a lot to me, it is like I am his best friend not his wife. There is so much more, the story runs so much deeper than this little paragraph. I am so sad and have a really hard time putting on a smile these days.
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