My wife left me 3 weeks ago stating that I have control and anxiety issues that have hurt her and her teenage daughter and that she wants a one year separation. She has stated she does not want a divorce but that I need to get counseling for three months for my issues before she will even consider marital counseling. She will not talk to me about anything but our son. She does not want to talk about our bills and will not help pay them either. She will not talk about the separation and has closed off from me. I am currently getting grief counseling and counseling for anger/anxiety/OCD to resolve my issues that I feel have been a factor. Has anyone been through this and reconciled their marriage? What are some things that I can do to make this work?
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