Why are some of the people on here so dead-set against those of us who have new relationships? I have found that even mentioning it almost constantly brings negative comments about it, rather than positive. When you lose a two decade long relationship it is going to affect you in all kinds of ways: emotionally, financially, socially, etc, etc. So it is no wonder that we seek friendship of like souls here on DS. That is more appropriate then bombarding our new partners with questions they may not have the answers to as they are not experiencing it firsthand as all of us have and are. But having a new relationship is NOT ALWAYS a bad thing or sign, for me it has been a breath of fresh air...
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