So my girlfriend opened up to me alittle. Although she seemed pretty reserved, it didnt matter to me. I was just happy that she opened up and I considered it a "start". I dont wanna fuck this up. We both have a habit of letting in and then sub consciously pushing away. With that in mind I think its essential to close attention to myself. Also, I feel its essential to pay close attention to her so I don't take things personally if she does push me away a bit, bc at this point its going to happen one way another whether its subtle or obvious But what Im starting to think is if its going to happen one way or another due to where we both are in our lives then instead of trying o stop it and creating a huge problem when it happens, try MY best to keep it to a minimal, and to watch boundaries whether im pushing or im being pushed. I want to also open up a bit to her, but not too much bc weve both had a habit of throwing things in each others faces so I think baby steps is a good idea. Any advice, or opinions on the situation are greatly appreciated. Im pretty open minded at this point. Thanks
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