My wife is filing for legal separation from me. We've been married for 7+yrs. Our life has never been easy, we have three wonderful little children together. We've had our share of problems, both of us have been unfaithful, she more recent than I. She just lost her job and is now in a deep depression. She wants to do everything on her own, relying on welfare to support our children. The only thing she wants from me is to pay the child support. I've tried talking to her, but she won't open up to me. She keeps a very large circle of friends. As much as she would lead me to believe they want us to work on her marriage I know there's a lot of her friends that don't care for me at all. She refuses to let our children know what is going on. I feel like I've tried everything to show her I'm still here and want to work on this together. Sorry for rambling, I am just lost and looking for some guidance or someone to listen, thanks.
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