I married after being single for about 19 years.I thought he was the one i had been patiently waiting for. He came on like the perfect one for me.What I didnt know is the picture he painted was not who he is.He told me he was a business owner for many years but lost his business in his divorce,he lost his home she took everything.He told me he was a contractor but work was slow due to the econmony.To make a long story short I have found out this man was being supported by his ex wife. the car he had wasnt even his and it was repossed for non payment. I worked hard all my life had a nice savings,my own home a great good paying job and he had nothing!!!All lies dang im stupid.Well 3 years later here we are I am in a huge amount of debt,had none when i met this man, all credit in my name cause his credit sucks, all my money is gone, i moved out of my home and bought another because he felt was "my house" Well guess were the money came from to buy the one we are in.Anyways all my income goes to pay the bills and he keeps his check(he is working now) maybe give me 300 per week.He also owes 15,000 in back child support to his ex wife.I found out he has a very tainted past and has done some very terrible things.He can be the sweetest man then turns into a maniac,screaming yealling swearing and pushing.I have tried to separate but he wont agree.When I have asked him to leave he goes outside and starts screaming and yelling how i am throwing him out, that i am a whore etc etc etc.He has to involve the neighbors in what is going on.He wont leave.He tells me I wont be happy until he is homeless and has nothing.When i met the guy he was homeless and had nothing!It is getting to the point I am becoming afraid of him I dont know if he is going to hurt me physically.Currently I am disable due to surgery and I cant get away.I dont know what to do.
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