Ok so my stbx and I have three kids. I have kept open communication with him because of that. sometimes I need to get ahold of him due to issues with the kids etc. Yesterday I was in touch with him because in our religion boys who are 12 have a special thing that happens to them with regards to responsability in the church. Well it was our sons turn yesterday. And since we are divorcing our son needed permission from his dad to do this. there are other issues as far as he brings the kdis home hours late from vistation sometimes and i call to see where they are etc. Hence I cant really just stop talking to the guy. In any case I get these phone calls, messenger messages etc that just plain piss me off. Today it was...so you think hes cute huh? And im like what? and he said that im a bad person for being a slut. and im like what are you talking about? (he is the only man i have ever been with and i refuse to date til my papers are signed) anyway he poured over all of DS (yet again) to "catch me doing bad things" and he found a comment i made to jilted's picture..you know what it said? cute pics. does that make me a bad person? he said that me doing stuff like that is cruel to him. Doing what? Commenting on a suppor friends pic? And why the hell is he stalking me anyway? Yes he has keylogged my computer and gained access to me email...and has been through my email. Can anyone say PARANOID? And no i never cheated on him, he lied about that. To him...if i so much as ever looked at someone the wrong way i was cheating...makes me wonder if hes projecting..i wonder if hes the one who cheated?
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