I came back for a minute y'all! Letting Go by Dr.Zev Wanderer is a good book to read. it's a 12 week personal action program to overcome a broken heart. It is for ppl who got dumped not the dumper. It is helping me so i wanted y'all to try it to, it may help. Books-a-Million has it. I found out that my ex really does feel the same way as I do except he can't stop drinking so therefore he can't live up to my expectations. My expectations are what any spouse would want. He is incapable of that, so therefore, unless he cures his own self then I have to move on. I am moving on I have been on my own for some time now and I can do things for myself. I only miss the companionship that is all. I know that by learning to enjoy my own company again I will get over it much faster. I already love me and I am getting used to being alone in the morning and nite and even on the days I do absolutely nothing. I think some of you should try it cause you have to love yourself before you can put out positive energy to others. people can see right through a smile if you are sad. It shows in your expressions and body language. I am praying for everyone on the board to heal up and be happy
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