Why is it that my husband told me mid november that he wanted space and was moving out,then once he had moved two week,s before christmas he actually admits he had been e-mailing his whore for almost a year and she was coming over to live with him!,now that it hasen,t worked out cuz she,s too firery,that he wants to try and make up in the hope we can get back together!yet only last week he was calling me a bloody attention seeker because i had to be taken into hospital because i,d got an infection and because i am having chemo! i wasen,t too great! yet up until last year this man who i thought loved me had always been by my side but he had been going on about our lack of sex because i live with chronic acute pain,he told me i was using my illness as an excuse not to have sex! he actually decided to come upto the hospital yesterday trying to act the worried husband! i was really thinking that there maybe some hope for our marriage until he told me i was being nasty because i want to divorce on the grounds of his unresonable behaviour! i could get him for adultry and many other things but i thought that it would be better for him,but noooooooo that selfish pig sent me a txt message telling me after all i,ve done for you and you turn around and try and divorce me on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour what the hell does he want? i WILL NOT have him trying to stall me on this divorce just because it hasen,t worked out with his whore,she by the way knew he was married from the get go! she also was selfish enough to leave her three kids behind for my husband because his whore was married to a supposed womaniser! i was furious! now i find out she,s a bit too firey! oh and she feel,s sorry for me! why does this man who i have been with for over 25+years feel that i will welcome him back with open bloody arm,s! WHY DO men or women do this? do they realise the hell they put us through,WHY can,t they feel the pain they cause to us,i stated in this at the beginning of this topic that i was thinking about maybe getting back with him,well i,ve made my mind up it,s better to be single than to have to put up wondering who else he might be e-mailing as well as putting up with him constanbtly putting me down and calling me names,HELL NO! he has also just lost his job oh dear never mind how bloody sad,in other words what goes around comes around he deserves everything he gets after the hell he,s put me through!
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