I really don't have an answer for you. I think you just haven't found the right person yet. I wish you the best.

I really hope the next one is "the one" for you. I agree with Mamalyn and think this was just them telling you that they aren't the right women for you. We really do appreciate the nice men so don't let this stop you from being one.

I agree. It just sounds like you havent found the right person yet. Dont give up!

The right one will come along and then they will be able to appreciate the "good" in you!

I hope it is soon for you!

I am guessing another one has "kicked" you? Sorry if so.

Sometimes people just don't want to be treated good. Doesnt mean you should change, just means you need to find the one who wants to be treated good and mean it. things have changed a great deal now-a-days and what people say doesnt always jive with how they act. It all sounds good, but in the end, it was just lip service

take care of yourself as you go through the dating scene, you will meet someone when you least expect it, just make sure you have your eyes in the right direction when it comes by

ok that scares me as i'm ready to get in the dating scene

sorry and hugs

hey, if they tell you that you deserve better, than they are right!!!!! Hang in there...she will come along....

Are they all essentially saying the same thing when they end the relationship?

If so, "too good" and, "you deserve better" might actually mean something else. Could it mean you overwhelm them with softly-spoken compliments and sweet talk? Are you too giving in terms of where to go, what to do, which movie to see, etc. and this becomes a little boring because you don't seem to have an opinion of your own? Do you touch them constantly when you're with them (are you a little clingy)?

I think we'd all like to believe that we're wonderful catches and we just haven't met the kind of people who'll appreciate us yet, but if all the women you see end the relationship at a similar point with similar words, then you really need to start looking at yourself or/and the kind of women you're choosing to pursue.

KGKimmy, It hasn't been the same response from every woman. I am not a push over. I am not led around by my nose. I plan an evening soemtimes, other times, I ask for her input. As for being clingy, I am affectionate but can keep my hands to myself. I don't hang all over them throughout the evening.

I haven't been in the dating scene yet, but I do know I'm not getting on one of those dating sites again. I'll wait to meet someone in my everyday life doing the things I like to do. It may take longer, but I like to get to know someone first. Where are you meeting the women your getting into relationships? It seems to me that if you meet someone while doing something you enjoy that you would have better luck.

I do think kimmy as a valid point

Personally I dont think it matters much where you meet them or any of that. I think it just take time and that you have to catch a lot of little one to catch a big one... Dont give up just dont fall too soon. Be yourself if you like who you are then dont change. Dont be fake for anyone. you will find someone who will appreciate you for you. Best of luck

But Boomer67, you say you're tired of being, "kicked", so, there's obviously a problem with either the type of women you're pursuing (you're not compatible with them generally), or, you should be, but you're doing something which is turning them all off.

The whole, "it's not you, it's me", as in, "you're too good for me and you deserve better" should have set off some sirens for you.

It's all very well for many of the people here to reassure you that you're wonderful and just haven't met the right person, and they may be absolutely correct, but it's also very possible that you need to look at yourself and the vibe you're putting out there.

KGKimmy,

As I said in this thread and a hug, thanks for the honest feedback, as I am looking to improve myself. But really, I got it the first time.

Okay, Boomer67, I should thought I'd reiterate because your response was in the negative, as in, you're not clingy, pushy, have your own opinions and mind, and, essentially, couldn't possibly see even the slightest hint of a problem in yourself or your choice of women.

Hey, if it's any conciliation, I'm going to be knee-deep and floundering in it when I decide to hit the dating scene. If the odd occasion I did go out on a, "girl's night out" is any indication of what I can look forward to, my, "vibe"...well, I'd rather not go into it...but suffice to say I'm going to have to work on it ; )