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Since the divorce(2005), I've had a few realtionships. They all start out well enough. We get along great. They tell me how they have never been treated as nice as I treat them. We never spend every moment together. I have my time, they theirs and we share some time. At somepoint they tell me that I am too god, that I deserve better. I am so tired of getting kicked.
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If so, "too good" and, "you deserve better" might actually mean something else. Could it mean you overwhelm them with softly-spoken compliments and sweet talk? Are you too giving in terms of where to go, what to do, which movie to see, etc. and this becomes a little boring because you don't seem to have an opinion of your own? Do you touch them constantly when you're with them (are you a little clingy)?
I think we'd all like to believe that we're wonderful catches and we just haven't met the kind of people who'll appreciate us yet, but if all the women you see end the relationship at a similar point with similar words, then you really need to start looking at yourself or/and the kind of women you're choosing to pursue.
The whole, "it's not you, it's me", as in, "you're too good for me and you deserve better" should have set off some sirens for you.
It's all very well for many of the people here to reassure you that you're wonderful and just haven't met the right person, and they may be absolutely correct, but it's also very possible that you need to look at yourself and the vibe you're putting out there.
As I said in this thread and a hug, thanks for the honest feedback, as I am looking to improve myself. But really, I got it the first time.
Hey, if it's any conciliation, I'm going to be knee-deep and floundering in it when I decide to hit the dating scene. If the odd occasion I did go out on a, "girl's night out" is any indication of what I can look forward to, my, "vibe"...well, I'd rather not go into it...but suffice to say I'm going to have to work on it ; )