From time to time, books have been recommended for reading to help us through this process. My stbx did not have an affair (at least I don't think so) but abandoned me, and as soon as he sees me doing better he comes bouncing back. A little back story...married 9 years, have 1 daughter, found out he saw two divorce attys two years ago, but decided not to file and not to tell me...filed in Sept of 08, and moved out in Nov 08. Any suggestions?? That will help me be strong again and move on and put an end to this vicious cycle??? I feel like I am hanging on by a string and he comes along and reels it in from time to time..when he feels guilty,lonely or scared. Not sure really why..but he does and I need to put an end to it. I am sick of wondering what he is doing and who he is with...I want to not care! I know it all takes time...
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