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Damn! I woke up this morning to a nightmare about the ex....they started again!
This one had more meaning than the others:
But I was back in the home; my ex was there, I was picking up some stuff at the home; my stbx gf was there....but she had long hair (she only has short hair and hates long hair). The gf was following me around the house; but she didn't look normal. She looked a little strung out; and thin (she's kind of well; bigger than me; way much bigger and taller).
She just kept giving me this look that she wasn't happy with herself and her life.....she was a mess.
I left the home with my things thinking "wow, she looks bad thank God!". It made me feel better.
BAM! I woke up; the dream really reflected me. It was me the whole time following me around my home, like a ghost!
NOT A GOOD FEELING!
AM I GOING NUTS NOW? Or is this part of our grieving process?
This one had more meaning than the others:
But I was back in the home; my ex was there, I was picking up some stuff at the home; my stbx gf was there....but she had long hair (she only has short hair and hates long hair). The gf was following me around the house; but she didn't look normal. She looked a little strung out; and thin (she's kind of well; bigger than me; way much bigger and taller).
She just kept giving me this look that she wasn't happy with herself and her life.....she was a mess.
I left the home with my things thinking "wow, she looks bad thank God!". It made me feel better.
BAM! I woke up; the dream really reflected me. It was me the whole time following me around my home, like a ghost!
NOT A GOOD FEELING!
AM I GOING NUTS NOW? Or is this part of our grieving process?
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
As far as dreams about the stbx bf or whatever, i never met the one guy that i know she was dating, she's afraid of what i would do to him lol....i said nothing...except maybe warn him ! LOL