hi guys.just wanna tell yous my experience.i was with my x husband 4 12 year.he lied cheated and finally head butted me so i threw him out.i m not gona pretend it was easy on my own.it wasnt.he was supposed to be paying half the mortgage.well he hadnt been,and it wasnt till my card was declined 4 my shopping and i rang the bank that i realised how bad it was.by this time he was living with a girl 30 year his junior.any way i had no option but to buy him out as my house woulda been reposesed.so considering i had 4 year left on my mortgage.i had2 start over and have a 25 year mortgage.it s been a real hard struggle.many many tears.i have just sold my house cos it s 2 big for me now.and he wont get a penny wich i m happy about.i just wanna say to any1 going through a bad time.please believe there is a light at the end of the tunnel.and time is a healer.i have met good and bad people after my divorce.ive just come out of a 2 qnd half year relationship.so it s a bit hard at the min 4 me.but i am not gonna let my past spoil my future.we are all stronger than we realise.if any1 had told me i d get divorced be penniless and the kids would leave home.i woulda said no.i wouldnt cope.it s actually made me stronger.not that i d want it to happen again.suppose what i m trying to say is any1 going through a real hard time please believe you can and will get through it.
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