My wife cheated on me 3 years ago, (memorial day weekend) and I let her stay. It was hard at first. she met this guy on the net, had an emotional affair over the net and phone, and then he came down and met her at her work, took her home with him and she spent the night there.she said she found her soul mate, she showed me pics of him, she even let my kids talk to him on the phone! what a b!%@h. But you know what, my kids told him the truth and he found out that she lied to him too, it was over after 3 days, and she wanted to stay with me. Well needless to say she stayed. at the end of jan 08 i was given a letter that she wrote to another guy where in the letter she said that she wanted him to make love to her. She wrote the letter to him on christmas eve! guess what i am still there! why, why cant i leave why am i so bound to this life, i WILL NOT leave my kids with her, but my kids are older now and they all want to go with me, my youngest is 14 (i have 4)yet still i cant leave. for the last few months she has been good as gold (well at least silver, ) i went to a lawer to file for divorce but again i just cant seem to pull away, , , , , Help me , what do i do, what do i do, what do i do!
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