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My ex contacted me to explain why he married a woman he met on a christian dating site within 9 days (she in TX, he KY). The "LORD" told him to go to this site, he would find a right one with 1st name beginning with a J (Jesus) last name C (Christ), well that is exactly what my initials are. Stated this person was not at all what he would have chose in a mate, but the lord had directed him. Am I going crazy, I am a christian, no the "LORD" has never ever chosen a mate for me, my heart and love grew for him.

This was what broke are marriage up along with his mental problems. I sometimes wonder if the "DEVIL" is directing him in the directions he has chosen.

Still telling me that he still "LOVES ME", but the "LORD" must give him his direction, and know he did not love this woman, but the lord had chosen her. Trying to understand all of this.

Has anyone else had this problem????
frstperrygrl
frstperrygrl
Sounds pretty creepy to me. Think about it all and think if a sane person would actually say all this. This sounds like something out of a movie on why the killed someone.
deleted_user
deleted_user
His mental problems are alive and well.. My advice would be to end contact and save yourself heartbreak.. I know easier said than done, but this could be the start of a new life with health present instead of the sickness I hear.. God Bless, Kimmee
deleted_user
deleted_user
IMHO, your ex has some serious mental health issues that need to be addressed.
deleted_user
deleted_user
sounds like they both need some help, getting married after only 9 days of meeting on a web site no less.

Try to stay strong, and I would do what I could to avoid contact with him too
deleted_user
deleted_user
Holy shit. :( (((HUG to you)))
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