Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Ok I called my hubby about an hour ago and he said he was going to the library to get on his myspace page. These are the messages we sent back and forth.
Me:Hey are you online?
Hubby:hey im on now
Me:Ok......how u doin?
Hubby:not having a good day... very emotional
Me:Im sorry......i kn ow how them days are...ive been having them quite a bit lately. I get to see that Dr on the 12th about meds. Did you get those messsages I sent u?
Hubby:yeah just did
Me:I am very sorry that I hurt you in any way shape or form. I do love you very much and Im trying to work thru everything. I hope you start to feel better.
Hubby:have told you so many times that I love you. but i feel like love is not enough anymore. i have given all of myself to you. everything kalena. i am still so broken inside still so unsure of everything and even more afraid then i have been since i was young
Me:I know baby, but I love you, and I know we have what it takes to get thru this. I really would like you to check out that book Divorce Busting......it tells you a lot of what you can do, especially focusing on solutions not problems.
Hubby:i dont know if i can kalena
Me:Well Im just throwing it out there, I think it would really help you out too. Its not just about the marriage part, but it also tells you how to better yourself. Im not saying you have to, but Im just saying its a good read and very insightful.
Hubby:what was the name again? i will see if trudy has it.
Me:The title is Divorce Busting by Michele Weiner-Davis......if she doesnt have it see if she can get it from another library.
Hubby:alright im going to try to get it and see if shell get it for me if they dont have it. im gonna get going now cuz i have to walk back to moms and have to go to kwik trip too so im gonna go. not sure when i can get back to the library since im walking everywhere. so i will message ya the next time im here.
Me:
Me:Hey are you online?
Hubby:hey im on now
Me:Ok......how u doin?
Hubby:not having a good day... very emotional
Me:Im sorry......i kn ow how them days are...ive been having them quite a bit lately. I get to see that Dr on the 12th about meds. Did you get those messsages I sent u?
Hubby:yeah just did
Me:I am very sorry that I hurt you in any way shape or form. I do love you very much and Im trying to work thru everything. I hope you start to feel better.
Hubby:have told you so many times that I love you. but i feel like love is not enough anymore. i have given all of myself to you. everything kalena. i am still so broken inside still so unsure of everything and even more afraid then i have been since i was young
Me:I know baby, but I love you, and I know we have what it takes to get thru this. I really would like you to check out that book Divorce Busting......it tells you a lot of what you can do, especially focusing on solutions not problems.
Hubby:i dont know if i can kalena
Me:Well Im just throwing it out there, I think it would really help you out too. Its not just about the marriage part, but it also tells you how to better yourself. Im not saying you have to, but Im just saying its a good read and very insightful.
Hubby:what was the name again? i will see if trudy has it.
Me:The title is Divorce Busting by Michele Weiner-Davis......if she doesnt have it see if she can get it from another library.
Hubby:alright im going to try to get it and see if shell get it for me if they dont have it. im gonna get going now cuz i have to walk back to moms and have to go to kwik trip too so im gonna go. not sure when i can get back to the library since im walking everywhere. so i will message ya the next time im here.
Me:
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Me:Thanks. That makes me feel good. I really hope you enjoy the book. Its a good one, and I hope that you start to feel better. This rollercoaster of emotions is terrible, but I know you can get through it. Be careful walking back.