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well well well just got a text from my ex today just now actualy, wants to know how my granfather is....what crap I mean she knows hes sick and we were together for 7 years and it takes her 2 f@*!in weeks to ask me that? WHAT A JOKE!
deleted_user
deleted_user
delete the text time to focus on your grandfather and you
deleted_user
deleted_user
Reply or not to reply,, that is the question!
deleted_user
deleted_user
2 weeks? rude - you know she wants something...
deleted_user
deleted_user
oh it gets better, i just got another text from her.

HER:Sorry to hear that how have you been?

ME:what kinda question is that? yea just peachy! what do you care???!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Just waiting for you to tell us that she has an alternate agenda...
deleted_user
deleted_user
good god you know on here i give out what I hope to be good advice but damn why can't I ever take my own advice! just grinds my ass that all of the sudden she gives a shit! I think she got the point from the last text...hasnt texted back....
deleted_user
deleted_user
Ok,, what did you say in the last text?
deleted_user
deleted_user
she's pushing your buttons...reply and save it as a draft. if you feel like sending it in the morning, then do it then. it's your phone, you get to choose to answer calls or texts when it's a good time for you. better question...what's her motivation?
deleted_user
deleted_user
alternate agenda... ????????? you mean come here.....ummm no
deleted_user
deleted_user
god
that grinds my ass
it really does
7 fuckin years with this girl
7
knows about my granfather
fuck
LEFT ME
when I first found out about it
and wants to know how he is now
deleted_user
deleted_user
personally, i would answer the text in a matter-of-fact answer. tell her how your grandfather is...could be one word or a few and how are you? "fine" and leave it at that.
And I agree with you about taking your own advice...easier to give than receive! Don't get worked up, just don't expect therefore no disappointments. She may never "get it"...SORRY :(
deleted_user
deleted_user
If only you could have like a spam blocker like email has. Then her texts would just delete before they even got to you. She's playing a game with ya. Don't let her win it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
yea no kidding! i already deleted her from my calling list.....maybe just change my damn number. I cant wait till she gets her stuff out of my house and then it will just be over....
deleted_user
deleted_user
why wait for her leave it at the curb
deleted_user
deleted_user
exactly!
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