Breakups & Divorce Support Group

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What to do?

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For the past two years I have known this woman who works for my largest client. She has hit on me for about the entire period of time. She is married with two kids and the day she found out I was divorcing called me with the new discovery. Ironically her marriage has not been working for quite awhile and she and her husband are facing separation. I enjoy her company and we work well together but do you mix business with pleasure? At what point would it be correct for me to date her or should I at all? Do you date someone who you work with and is out looking for the new thing before the marriage is over?
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I don't think it is a good idea. I have heard a lot of bad comes when something happens and you have to see them at work. I would be really cautious.
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if she is married i would leave well alone....... do not open that can of worms......
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i wouldn't do anything until her divorce is final. you don't need someone elses baggage. and what kind of person comes on to you when they are married anyway happy or not. so what kind of woman is she really?
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I made the mistake of dating someone I worked with once. I'll never do it again. Bad idea... very BAD idea.
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Thank you for the advice. I don't know why the thought of giving in ever crossed my mind. Lonliness maybe?
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I agree with Chrurop. Do you really want to get involved with a woman who's married and chasing you.

Run away from her. It's trouble.
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It's nice to get attention.
She's bad news, but you already know that.
You'll find someone in time.
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I agree with chrurop 100%.. No, no, no! She is willing to cheat on her husband with you?
If you say no,,, and she is not happy, then she can leave him without you in the picture,, file for divorce like a respectable person and after the divorce is final... I would still stay away from her, cause she offered to have an affair with you while she was married!
Did someone actually tell me I was judgemental?
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