I have been with James for 4 months he is 23 and has a 1 year old son with his ex and they broke up before he was born it was her attempt to keep him and then he has roxy that has 2 girls that are not his that he took care of she did not work and their fathers where not in their lives it was only james so I started working with him and I had never worked in this field before and he was so sweet and all he did was make me laugh and that is so important in this field its hard to do so we started talking and then I started talking about one of the guys I was dating and he told me about roxy I was shocked that he would be with a woman like this he never said anything bad about her just that she staid at home and she would yell at him if he worked to much and yell at him if he didnt work and then didnt bring home the over time pay (we both work 98- 120 hrs a week) so she was just not the one for him he is so sweet and hard wroking and funny and laid back and will do anything for anyone and shes not any of that she showed up at work one day and started to yell at him because he wouldt give her his bank card so she could go shopping didnt take him aside started yelling at him in front of everyone so he gave it to her and then she left any way matt and i broke up the guy I was seeing and james was there for me to talk to then i started seeing someone else and i told james he seemed upset i didnt know why well when ross left me to go back to his x james then told me that he waited evryday to hear me say that I was shocked and he quickly covered it up with because I deserved better so he came into work one day and said it was his birthday I told him that he should have taken the day off and gone out and had fun he then said he didnt have anyone to go out with a little while later he came up to me and asked if i would go out to get a drink with him I said no problem well then we started talking and then we let eachother know how we felt about eachother and then he went to the park with me and my dog and we spend the day out side and then we kissed it couldnt have been more perfect that lasted a few weeks then we started working alot agaiin and seeing eachother less and less and he lived with roxy it then went to he would say that he was comming over then never show up and wouldnt answer his phone and i could only talk to him while we where at work so i lost my temper and called him and broke up with him and then the next day i thought about it and how much i mssed up and asked him to take me backand he said no that he wanted everything just not the title that way if i got mad i didnt have to talk to him anymore and i didnt have to tell him that i didnt want him again silly i know then we was still pulling the bull with not talking to me so i knew that he was still with her and so i started seeing other people just kept it to myself it was a no ask no tell thing and then I needed him to help me move and he was the only one out of everyone that helped me and it was just the 2 of us and then he started comming around more and then told me that he moved out of the house and moved back in with his mom and was still paying roxys rent because of the kids and she didnt have a job and he couldnt do that to them so i was fine with that now my problem is this we get together everry friday night and drink and have fun well 2 weeks ago he told me that he loved me and i feel the same about him and I did tell him that now we have gotten very close and i dont know if he has left roxy for good or if i am a rebound. and I dont know of i should tell him that i was dating a few guys until 2 weeks ago when i was with sean and felt so guilty and only wanted to be with james. I dont get this i am very pretty and james is well not tom cruse and thats ok with me and roxy is very ulgy inside and out and my problem is i am to sweet and nice for my own good. I have never gone threw this before what do i do. stay with him and trust him? do i tell him about the others? i dont know help
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