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im really sad rite now. my husband have spent the past 6 christmas' together, and after one year of marriage, we split...not officially divorced. but all within a year we have miscarried a baby and split up. i just remember last year at this time i was buying him parenting books for christmas and we were putting up our first tree together. and now i hate holidays. we had special traditions and it breaks my heart to think about. this is the first year that im not spending time w my family. i just want to take a sleeping pill and the day to be over with. he's a great man and i hurt him beyond belief. he honestly deserves someone better than me, but i guess that's what happens when you fall out of love with someone. please give me advice on how to get thru guilt and the sadness of a family breaking apart. i need some help. thanks.
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I too have lost a baby, although many years ago. I can look back now and realize that God knew what He was doing. At the time I just shut myself off and kept busy. I am so glad that my kids are older now, and can deal with divorce better. I don't know your whole situation, but I do know that people commonly split up over money, affairs and death/miscarriage of a child. Did you and your husband try counseling? And how about medication to help you deal with your depression? Medication isn't the answer all of the time, but maybe it is something you could try as a temporary boost. My prayers are with you.
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great advice from beckyw...I too lost a baby years ago.
I wish i could add more, but beckyw really siad such helpful stuff.
I am sorry for your sadness.
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I agree with becky, plus I see you blaming this all on you. Why? Please take miss an opportunity to be with your family for Christmas.... I lost my mom almost 4 years ago and God what I wouldn't do for another day, be it Christmas or any other. YOu need to stop punishing yourself. You are seperated, not divorced, there is hope if there is love.
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thank you all...your replies are very helpful.
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