Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
i'm trying to rebuild my saniity by moving away from my ex but was still talking to him sometimes on phone until this past summer when he moved so i thought the time had come when we would not talk nomore(by the way he's remarried,has been for a yr!but i didnt know!)anyway,i thought i was doing good managing with stress level,physical pain&depression with talking to therapist!(by the way he was my first everything,love,sex,marriage,whole deal)but i got a call from my ex a couple days ago wanting to know how i'm doing? my problem is ,yeah it brings up old memories,but he's married now! i think he's cking to make sure i havent lost it(mentally)yet&i dont know how to stop taking his calls! i get all nervis after the call,my physical pain is worse becouse i'm stressed&my depression gets worse! it might be ok if he was really interested in how i'm doing but i just dont trust that anymore!we really were connected while we were dating but fell apart after we got married!PLS LET ME KNOW OTHER OPIONS,THANKS!Mary
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I totally sympathize. It is devastating to have to say "no". Perhaps an email that explains how difficult you find his calls. I have told my ex I get depressed when I am around him, because I know it is temporary. I made the mistake the other day to send a message stating simply "I miss you" When I spoke to him later about something specific about our kids, he was kind to say he missed me too. But that just makes it worse you know. What does his miss mean? Politeness? Guilt? I doubt it means what my miss means. So avoiding the temptation to talk is REALLY the best route I believe. Otherwise you will be stuck forever in the past. There is someone out there looking for you. Believe it and find them. Don't look back any more