Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Ok so I've had 2 'breakdowns' since he ended it, last night and when he actually dumped me. Other than that it's like I feel sad, but not as sad as I should be, although it does hurt I feel like somehow my body won't let the extent of it come out to protect me or something, because I know this isn't really true to how I'm feeling. I think I'm in some sort of shock and denial, but I'm so scared to let it out because I don't know how I'll get through it. I keep calling him, please don't say to stop because I am cutting back and in my own way it helps He will talk to me, but that just makes me realise how much I love him. I don't see how he could throw me away, I was a good girlfriend, I took care of him, fed him when he couldn't afford to, loved him no matter what, gave him space when he needed it and was there when he needed me. I'm also living on hope, because he's broken up with me in the past, and he's told me he will again and he can't help it and at the time he'll think it's for good. Now he's saying its 100% final but I don't know whether to believe this because he told me he'd say that!So it just makes no sense, any suggestions?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
He gets to continue hurting you time and time again and then come back each time. He risks nothing when he dumps you since he knows he can always come back.
Your are right. It makes no sense. You were good to him and this is the way he treats you. Think about it. You deserve better.
We are all here if you need us.