
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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All I get is "I don't know"... I am so in love and have always been. I always felt so blessed and lucky to have met this man of my dreams. My whole world is crashing and I feel like I am dying. How can he just want out. How can he go on like nothing has happened. I keep thinking I can't possibly cry any more and then I'm driving, or at work, or cooking and all of a sudden it hits me. I mean did he ever love me? Was it just my fantasy? I thought we would grow old together. I had so many plans for our future. Now I feel lost, devasted, crushed, and just plain stupid. How could I not see this coming? I thought he loved me too, I never thought he'd ever want to end things. I just don't know if I'll make it through this in one piece.
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Just for the record to all other fellow repliers, my wife left me because she didn't want to be married any longer to anyone. I was devastated. There are men out there that value and desire long term loving relationships and commitments, just as there are women who do not value these things. So please stop generalizing.
And yes, I am another man left bye the wayside for reasons that now after almost two months of time to think only amount to hard times, and so she chose the easy way out.
I know it might sound horrible right now, but I believe you should count yourself lucky!!!
if he is not happy with you... let him go, show him the door and lock it right after him.
the lucky part is that he told you he wants out. so you are not living in a lie anymore.
believe me it would be much more painfull if he was sending you mixed messages, like one day he wants out and the next day he says he loves you lots and is so sorry because he is losing you.
that, my friend, is TORTURE, pure evil.
so...if he wants out... let him go (help him packing), do your crying and start a new life.
once you've donne your crying you will find you are a much better/stronger person.
like LarryLDN said :
whatever doesn't kill you can only mke you stroger.
You have to be able to see the fortunate side of things..and there is one. We are all better off without people like these as partners. A true partner doesn't, lie, cheat, manipulate or overpower. It takes quite a bit of healing to get to that point though.
I may not be the happiest person on earth right now, but I'm so much better off without him!