Absolutely, yes, it is possible to love again!

YES, it is ABSOLUTELY possible to love again..... It's a thing called "MIND OVER MATTER."

You can only love again when you love yourself, and that includes having great confidence in who you are and how you interact with people. Not all dogs bite.

Awwwww (((Hugs))) are you Sure that those arms that you want are His? Really His, not a picture of what you wanted him to be?

OH YEAH! When you have one child, or 5, do you not love them all ?

One day you will know it's possible. I found I had to sort everything out in my mind, get rid of the trash, so to speak. Then move on with life. I am not there yet. Stbx said she's there when talked on Thurs. She didn't know 75% of all rebound relationships fail.
So when you are ready to love again you should keep that figure in the back of your mind.

Yes! Yes! Yes! if there is anything we know it is that we can love again!

It is not that I'm rational... I am kind of messed up my self... since there are two things I learned from history - well my history:

1. I will love again and I will be loved again
2. She will get bored within 5 years and dump me.

I told you I was messed up.

Yes, i think you can love again.I think you can love diffrent people for diffrent reasons.speaking of love your words were quiet strong to express your feelings, i'm thinking why not show some of that strong sence of care to yourself? I don't know what you call that i call it a self love.all the best for you.

5 years... well, Variety is the Spice, eh?

Froggy, another thing you can do is think "positive" thoughts about ALL of those things...

1)instead of thinking I loved him so much, say to yourself, I will find love again & when I do, I will be able to love him more than I ever thought possible.

2) say to yourself, I AM ME, I CAN BE MYSELF WITHOUT HIM. I do NOT need someone in my life to make me happy. I HAVE to be happy & love MYSELF before I can love someone else.

3)Try to do something to keep your mind off of HIM. I know it's hard, but it can be done..... (mind over matter here).

4) Say to yourself that in time, when I find that "special" someone, I will have those LOVING, CARING, COMPASSIONATE, UNDERSTANDING, etc. arms to hold me tight.

5). Again, this is part of the "healing process." We ALL have gone/are going through it. It is NOT easy to get through these things. The first thing that you need to do is to "accept" that there is NOT anything that you can do about what happened in the past. YOU need to focus on YOU!~! You need to think POSITIVE thoughts instead of NEGATIVE thoughts. When you are able to do this, more positive things will start happening in your life & the negative things will start to disappear. I hope this has helped you!~! "Keep Your Chin Up!~!" I'm praying for you!~!

I am not there yet but I had a bf when I met stbx and I fell for him so yes maybe the next one will be your soulmate!!!!

Yes, you can love again. There are no limits on love. You can love as many people as you want as much as you want. I believe that love, in every sense of the word, is boundless.

Love is for giving -or- Love is forgiving :)

Yes, anything is possible in life, you just have to be healthy enough to find it again. I would say most of us need to get past the betrayal and hurt first. Rebound relationships can be very bad for us.

Just my two cents.

I believe I can love again, and I believe I know how to do it even better, just need to go through this first before I can love again. You will love again, just hang in there.