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SOB!!!

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STBX just called. Wants to list the house, today, without my having my Money!!!

The pressure is building, and I feel like a tube of toothpaste.

Now he is saying that No One has this Mysterious Money-it was being Wired to Someone, who is lending it to our Debtor, who is paying it to stbx, who gives it to me...I feel the need to start banging my head on a wall...

I have quietly explained to this man, hopefully for the last time, that I have NO PLANS of allowing the listing of this house until I have my money.

I Will NOT be Signing ANY Power of Attorney over to Him or Anyone Else.

I am not now, nor have I ever Been a Total Idiot-other than 6 short weeks in the summer of 1985!!!

I think that my ulcer is about to kick in. I really don't like anger. Today is just kicking my butt.
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Hugs, try not to let your butt get kicked. And good for you for standing up for yourself. Don't let him list the house without giving you your money first. You are a wise and strong woman!!
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Man girl, you just can't get away from it today. You are right to stick to your guns, but i know it is stressful, good thing you are a strong woman.
*hugs*
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"Today is just kicking my butt"

Sounds like you are starting to kick a little butt of your own... :)
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wow....sorry to hear the nightmare continues! You are doing the right thing, protect yourself and you will be okay. Maybe go down to the store and get a bottle of wine to take the edge off. Don't know if you are the angry drunk type, if so u might want to stay away from the wine.
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Belzar, if I do, it ain't a gonna stop. I really am mad, and getting more angry with every stunt.

He is pushing every button and going as fast as he can.

Damn, I have about had it with this...Time to laugh and find a way to get around it without blowing up.
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Oh, Hell no...oops, I don't do drinking when angry-that is Dangerous.

He would end up wearing a lamp over his head or something...I don't trust myself.
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(((hugs)))
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Stand by your words with your actions. No, you're not an idiot..Far from it.
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Now Oldest son called...out on a job site with this Mr. Boa...His dad just Fired him, for the umpteenth time.

Told him to move with me. He Talks too much. He wouldn't have lost so much money the last paychecks if he could have kept his mouth shut about what he heard...

STBX is the biggest piece of Shit that ever rolled out of the california central valley...next to his own father.
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If this is a test, it sounds like you're being given the ultimate one! Like you said, you're not a total idiot, so you'll be able to get through this with dignity and wisdom, I know.
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I'm so sorry for you, you sounded so happy and now this... I haven't even served mine and I know that it will be mush of the same
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tami - stay strong!!!!

((hugs))
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I'm thinking Kev's offer for providing names for a Hit Man might just be the solution to your problems with the STBX with each minute that passes!

I'm pissed for you!
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I was "warned" and I knew that it could get ugly. This is just uncomfortable and pissing me off.

STBX is a sociopath. A psychiatrist and my Therapist wanted me pulling up stakes and leaving weeks ago. I need money to go. I am trying to just Wait this Out.

I don't think he will "break". But, damned, I may Break Him if he keeps it up.
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I know, mine has been diagnosed as a sociopath too, and I was told to have no contact with him. I wasn't told not to despise him, though, so that much I can do :)
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