I just recently left my husband. Hes been cheating the whole 11.5 years weve been together. I caught him red-handed and still he refused to admit it. He expected me to keep wearing the blinders Ive had a harder and harder time putting on. we were going to do a trial seperation before I caught him. He actually thought we were still going to. Originally I had planned to get a payday loan to catch up the electricity that was in my name so he could transfer it into his name and was shocked that I didnt. As long as Ive known him hes had someone living with him or lived with someone to help him and usually that person was expected to pay most of the bills. His parents when I met him...then me and at times his brother...before he met me he lived with his sister and never paid for anything or helped with the chores. Now hes moved his and her 3 year old in with him. The only time he ever has seen his kids is when I prompt him. (They live with my parents. Thank God) Now I doubt he'll even bother. He said he loved me right and says he loves his kids but he doesnt know what that means. He tells me I used him but I was devoted to him and tried to do all he wanted me to while he was out with his friends or girlfriends that i didnt know about. I was supposed to work, pay for at least half the bills if not more though he made twice what i did, clean the house, cook, and I took care of all the business calls and such. He hasnt a clue about how to deal with companies. Most of the bills have been in my name alone. Only one I can remember was only in his. A few were in both our names. The irony of it is...we had a family plan for the cell phones under his name. He shut mine off and expects me to help with the bill. He couldnt have shut it off if I hadnt told him how to contact them since he couldnt figure it out. LOL. Half the time I did pay that bill anyway. He still has me authorized on the account. Ok, Ive dumped enough on you for now. Thanx for listening.
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