Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Me and my husband has been together for 20 yrs and in August he left he said he want to be happy that he is doing this for himself. He has always been a hard worker and paid all the bills but never really showed any love he is a loner and when he's home he is always in another room and he's happy. When I would try to talk to him about it he would say I was arguing and if I wrote it down then I was complaining I was so lonely when he was here but I was content because I guess that is what I was use to. Now he is gone and I am so sad I am no longer lonely but very sad I can't believe he left me and his daughter to live with his sister and sleep in her basement on a coach and taking her son to ball practice when he should be spending time with his child. I am very bitter because me and my husband use to be best friend and now it is like I don't even know him. He has no responsibility as far as being a husband or a father he is still paying the bills but he complained even though I don't have a job and is responsible for food and toiletries I do hair on the side for extra money but it is not a steady income i can't get a full time job because i have to take my baby to school and pick her up he move us out to the country two years ago close to his job and told me I could be a stay at home mom if I knew he was going to leave i would have stayed were i was and continue to work it is like he is kicking me when I am down
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When nobody is interested, aloneness is the only path available. Online if you don't look like, or are, a celebrity or model, forget it. Time passes but nothing changes.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
He seems to have some deep problems that maybe he needs to face on his own in his own time! Bless you and know that we are here for you if you need us!
Hugs!
His personality sounds like my husband's, so you probably won't even notice he's gone after a while.
I don't feel guilty about him paying the bills he better be glad I allow him to pay them because when he do have to pay child support he may not have a dime to pay his own bills I live in Georgia and they go by a pay scale an they don't care how many bills he has. Also I will be getting half of his 401k and his stocks so I am doing him a favorite not going after him yet you see I said yet, right now I still love him but each day it is less and one day I will wake up not loving him and then that's all she wrote.