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There will not be 2 daycares for Ben. He is going to the one here in town full-time. Also, STBX has full custody and I have visitation whenever I want. This is only temporary and was my idea. It breaks my heart, but I know that is what is best for Ben. I am just not very emotionally stable right now and don't feel like I am capable of caring for him like he needs to be cared for. I will still spend time with him and eventually will go back to shared custody, but for now I have to get my head screwed on straight so I can learn to deal with him again.
LarryLDN
hope all works out well for all involved ;)
Che2
Sometimes being a great Mom means doing the right things for your kids..even if it's not what you want. He is little. He needs stability and a Mom who is okay. Take care of yourself.
deleted_user
Thanks Che2! I know I am doing the right thing. It just breaks my heart because I am his mommy and can't handle him. I know he will be better off this way and I will get better and everything will be great.
deleted_user
as sad as that is, your a very caring loving mother to do what is best for your son. hang in there, i hope that you can straighten things out soon so you can have your son with you. and that is quite a compliment you gave his father, that for now ben is better off with him. and good for you, i'm glad ben will be close by in daycare in case he needs you or his dad. good job mom.
deleted_user
Ben's dad is a great one! I am not in love with him anymore, but he really is a great person. We have our differences, but I know that he loves his son with all his heart and he will be able to take much better care of him than I am able to right now. He is also very understanding of my situation and, for the most part, supportive of me.
deleted_user
Pink...please make sure the joint custody is in writting. You and stbx may get along now but that may deteriorate further. Put everything in writting.
deleted_user
it is in writing
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