Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My 1st court day is coming on July 11th - I was granted temp custody by the lady judge (not really a surprise because of the abuse) but I'm feeling wired as I have NEVER in over 20 years of marriage been on the opposite side of my husband in a legal matter. I keep having to tell myself - it was his choice by getting angry and not getting help when offered. still, sitting in a court room not in support of each other is so surreal. The nice lady judge told me not to have a false sense of safety as TRO is only a piece of paper. Said I understood that. Still - I feel fuzzy - like maybe I want to wake up and this would have all been a nightmare....but I know it is not a nightmare. and i will have to be strong enough to travel down this road.....stbx told me today on the telephone "I'm trying" to do better....I said, you have been telling me that for over 2 years and things have only gotten worse, I don't want to hear "I'm trying" anymore (I did say it kindly) but still....is it normal to feel strange when all of this is happening?
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I have had Ttp twice this year I'm 48 my doc said the next time Ttp happens they will take my immune system. Has anyone had this done? Does it work ? What other problems do u get?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Someone explained it like this to me recently - you've been married a long time and that has become your reality. Knowing that it is no longer your reality causes your mind to feel a lot of discomfort. Don't know if that makes sense or not - but I've definitely felt what you are feeling.
Please understand you are not alone-this community site is good for you and be sure to build up a support system-that is so important.
I am sure you are a great mom and doing the best for you and your kids. Just like me you are a survivor. Just keep thinking positive and take one step at a time. I will talk to you anytime you need someone to talk to. I know what you are going thru.