What do you do when you come to the point in life when you realize that life will never be the same? The damage is permenant the brain can heal some but it may never get back to full function. my son is very brain damaged. He lives in a facility. every day I wake and get ready and go to lunch with him. then come home cook supper and get about hour or so with the other two do car pool for swim team practice grocery shop. then go and do dinner until bed time get him in the bed then come home to the other two and take time for them and take time to talk to my partner . I find no time for me . cleaning the house , is never complete. getting in shape LOL no time for that. I changed the diet but no energy to do more after spending time with everyone else. no more vacations, or just hanging out with anyone all the responsablity consumes Yes i go to dinner I make his dad do dinner sat and sun nites. but thats the only break . No job to have extra money . seems life gets stagnent where everyday is the same. No one wants to do any time not one day off for real its been 4 years now. My son is now 23 yrs now he was 18 when the car accident happened. I cant bring myself to clean out his room and really no where to put all his stuff. He is doing great but not there where he can do anything for himself he is total care cant walk sit alone in wheelchair. contracture in hands. well any thoughts or views or comments welcome thank you
Posts You May Be Interested In
I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...