I am scheduled to have my 2nd tumor reduction surgery in a month and I am so terrified!!! My 1st surgery was last year about this and my durgeon was so positive that they would be able to get most of it. He had said that this is a common surgery that after someone has it they normally never have to have it again. In this case it hasn't even been a year. There is a fear of losing my eyesight and possibly brain fluid leakage. I am so afraid because last time I didn't know what to expect with the pain and the healing issues after the fact. I am trying not to let my husband see how freaked out I am because I know that he is dealing with his own concerns on this. I just don't know how to deal with this. I missed work today because I am not mentally competent to concentrate on my job... Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I am losing my mind here....
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