My husband has his bad days just like anyone else. Somedays his eyes hurt, or he just doesn't feel like going out anywhere. Sometimes I go to events or functions with family and I get tired of explaining where my husband is, and they all seem to act like it hurts that he isn't there or that I am just making excusses for him. I can't force my husbnad to leave home nor do I want to. iwant him to feel comfortable going out. i have tried to explain it to family, but thay all just think he doensn't like them, or that he is being rude. It is so hard I am not sure I guess what to do or how to handle the situation.
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