
Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.

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I know this may be rather stubborn of me but I have a difficult time believing that women can be homophobic. I tend to think that almost every woman can and will bend a little under the right circumstances with the right person. Whenever I hear another woman adamantly declare on a regular basis how disgusting she thinks it is for two women to be together I tend to think she's trying to convince herself that she would never swing that way, when deep down she's had some same sex desires that she's trying to deny. I know, that's just me being stubborn but does anybody else think like this? I have a hard time taking such reactions and behavior as legitimate proof of a woman's "heterosexuality". Sometimes I just want to jokingly say "You know you've thought about it." But I know how defensive people can get so I bite my tongue. Now if a woman were to calmly say "You know I have thought about but I really don't think it's for me." or "I've tried to imagine it but it just doesn't do anything for me." then I can believe her.
I say all of this because there's this woman I know who tends to talk about how she thinks it sickening for two women to be together yet she always brings the topic up when the topic has no relevancy to what's being discussed at that moment. I'm beginning to think that she is in some way fascinated with female homosexuality but doesn't want to admit it. Then again, like I said it could just be me being stubborn in my thinking.
I say all of this because there's this woman I know who tends to talk about how she thinks it sickening for two women to be together yet she always brings the topic up when the topic has no relevancy to what's being discussed at that moment. I'm beginning to think that she is in some way fascinated with female homosexuality but doesn't want to admit it. Then again, like I said it could just be me being stubborn in my thinking.
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That said people that talk about it all the time, well, I don't know.
I agree with you that most women can be attracted to other women, and I also definitely agree that the woman you mentioned who keeps bringing up her supposed disdain for homosexuality is afraid of it within herself, no doubt about that in my mind. If she keeps bringing it up specifically around you, than I think it's you she's attracted to.
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And of course i've pretty much never thought any other way so it would be hard to know.
I feel some sadness in that I felt there was some tension in the vain that this person I was interested in, despite her family status, may have had inclinations and was just testing the waters with her playful ways she teased me and such. When I acted aloof around her, trying to inhibit the emotions I myself have trouble reconciling, I noticed she gradually cooled off. Though I'm grateful of the distance, I can't help but miss what was and wonder if my intimations were right.