I know this may be rather stubborn of me but I have a difficult time believing that women can be homophobic. I tend to think that almost every woman can and will bend a little under the right circumstances with the right person. Whenever I hear another woman adamantly declare on a regular basis how disgusting she thinks it is for two women to be together I tend to think she's trying to convince herself that she would never swing that way, when deep down she's had some same sex desires that she's trying to deny. I know, that's just me being stubborn but does anybody else think like this? I have a hard time taking such reactions and behavior as legitimate proof of a woman's "heterosexuality". Sometimes I just want to jokingly say "You know you've thought about it." But I know how defensive people can get so I bite my tongue. Now if a woman were to calmly say "You know I have thought about but I really don't think it's for me." or "I've tried to imagine it but it just doesn't do anything for me." then I can believe her.
I say all of this because there's this woman I know who tends to talk about how she thinks it sickening for two women to be together yet she always brings the topic up when the topic has no relevancy to what's being discussed at that moment. I'm beginning to think that she is in some way fascinated with female homosexuality but doesn't want to admit it. Then again, like I said it could just be me being stubborn in my thinking.