Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
The girl I've liked for a long while is currently dating someone else.
I'm really happy for her because she seems so happy. So, even though I want to tell her how I feel, I decided to keep it to myself for her sake.
The last thing I want to do is hurt her relationship.
But lately she's been acting like she's pretty fond of me too. She lent me her jacket for gym the other day (on the basis that she knew I was going to whine about being cold), and then in class she hugged my shoulders from behind really gently and leaned her head on me.
Her voice softens when she speaks to me, and she always seems happy to be around me.
And then, just today she caught me off guard.
We were talking about how she slammed my locker close but then opened it for me. "Yeah, it's because you love me," I said jokingly. I didn't think anything of it because my friends and I always say that to one another. However, her reply was "Yeah, I do. Probably more than I should." And then she laughed and walked away.
She told me she liked me about a few months ago, but I figured when she got the girl she wanted she'd put aside her previous feelings.
If she hasn't, and still likes her girlfriend as she says she does, then why mess with me like this?
She's not that kind of person, and hates cheaters and know I'd never do anything like that with her behind someone's back.
I don't really know what to do. Help?
I'm really happy for her because she seems so happy. So, even though I want to tell her how I feel, I decided to keep it to myself for her sake.
The last thing I want to do is hurt her relationship.
But lately she's been acting like she's pretty fond of me too. She lent me her jacket for gym the other day (on the basis that she knew I was going to whine about being cold), and then in class she hugged my shoulders from behind really gently and leaned her head on me.
Her voice softens when she speaks to me, and she always seems happy to be around me.
And then, just today she caught me off guard.
We were talking about how she slammed my locker close but then opened it for me. "Yeah, it's because you love me," I said jokingly. I didn't think anything of it because my friends and I always say that to one another. However, her reply was "Yeah, I do. Probably more than I should." And then she laughed and walked away.
She told me she liked me about a few months ago, but I figured when she got the girl she wanted she'd put aside her previous feelings.
If she hasn't, and still likes her girlfriend as she says she does, then why mess with me like this?
She's not that kind of person, and hates cheaters and know I'd never do anything like that with her behind someone's back.
I don't really know what to do. Help?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Don't stay hung up and if later they break up then you could try to slowly move forward.
I will be honest when I met my now husband. He had a thing for someone else me for my friend Becky. So I figured we would hang out and just be firends.
Well, the girl he liked pushed him aside I never told Becky how I felt about her she was straight but any moment with her was enough back then.
Then He and I started to fall for each other. It was when that happened that the other GIRL started to get jealous but by that point he moved on to me and we were engaged 4 months later.
i NEVER told Becky she died before I could of Leukemia. I was afraid to tell her.
So, again wait and see if the feeling are real that you have for they won't go away easily and you will have a chance later.
However if your RIGHT person comes along who knows.....
My friend and I talked about confronting her about it, but I wanted some advice from people outside of the situation. :] Thank you!
Physical affection can also be strange too. I know a touchy feely person. She's married tho, but I have had my suspicions about her from time to time. Then again it could be her pregnancy hormones...lol.
I don't know. Life is funny with its twists. Sometimes you just have to see the humor of the situation. Lay low for now and just be friends. Who knows where your friend will be later in time...