I have a dilemma of sorts. I recently experienced my first relationship with a woman (I've had physical attraction to women my whole life and have even had 2 seperate sexual encounters that went nowhere...honestly I thought it was just a phase and I was done with women). I'm engaged and she's married. We both have children so it makes things even more complicated. Our men were completely open to the idea of us being together and exploring that part of ourselves. We fell for each other and are now both at a cross roads per say, where we aren't sure whether we need to break it off with the men in our lives to fully experience and explore our love for one another or break it off between the two of us. Her situation is quite different than mine because her marriage was not solid when the whole thing started. My fiance is totally supportive of her and I and if I do need time to figure things out he's open to a trial separation period because he does want me to be happy and true to myself. I just want to know other people's opinions and viewpoints on this situation. Maybe someone could offer some advice that we haven't though of yet or has been/is in a similar situation?
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