
Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
i wish there was like a.....gay..book store or something lol....or like...a gay coffee place. *sigh* I'm hopeless arent I?
I should just face it. I'm dying a spinster.
I live in the San Francisco bay area. loll yupp.. America's gay capital. lolll!
*sigh...i so need balls.
I am shy also! I totally understand where you are coming from! Maybe even it could be harder for you being on the shy side and serious about trying to find a woman partner and there is so much going on in your city that you may have to be careful about who you are connecting with. I think a good option for you may be to do something like Ave just told us she did. By going to the Gay Bi Lesbian and Transgendered Center. Maybe you can look into that in your city and go there and join a new group, one that pertains to you for starts, so that you may be able to find someone to pal around with while you look for romance. You don't have to automatically connect with someone you are attracted to, that could be too overwhelming. I think it would be better to look for a friend at first and make it clear to the pal that is all you are seeking. That way you'll have a friend to help you along the way and you can also be a friend to help someone along the way. If you already have an open-minded friend that can go to the center with you that would be even better! Well I've got to go now but it was nice chatting with you.
maybe I will google search for gay clubs and book stores and stuff. I also might go to a gay and lesbian support group thing near where I live...I figure that I might be able to pick up someone there. I wish it was as easy as men.
I think the secret handshake idea is amazing and now I'm thinking about what that handshake might be. It would have to be clear enough to be recognized as a "come on", but subtle enough not to be miscontrued if the other women isn't at all interested.
Hmmm, any ideas?
I also agree with Ave that the friendship is the best beginning and the connection comes after that, so start out just by moving towards women you have a simple friendly interest in.
Ave