
Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.

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i'm new here...hoping to get some views from anyone who has had a simular experience or just has some good advice. i've been married 12 years to a great guy who happens to be very open minded to my bisexuality..my confusion is not with the bisexuality, i've had relationships with both men and women leading up to our marriage and am very comfortable with who i am..never in our entire marriage has there been a question as to whether or not i wanted to be with him....until now. i've been having what you might call an *emotional affair* with another bi woman (also married) online..it didn't start out that way...at least i never intended for it to be..i didn't even know she was bi for awhile after we started talking...we became fast friends, lots in common,we've talked about the most intimate of details of our lives...and now i've found myself thinking about her all the time....our feelings are mutual however we hold back (i.e.: meeting up although we've exchanged pics) because of our marriages...this is killing me..i've never been in this position before and its definetly affecting my attitude towards my husband and our marriage in general..i just don't know what to do...do i stop talking to her and risk loosing the best friendship i ever had? how do i come to grips with this? him and i have had 3 somes but i've never been unfaithful to him i'm just not that kind...but this feels like to good of a thing to let go of. i dont know what to do.
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Welcome to the site.
I can completely relate to the agonizing situation you're in. I'm in a similar position- I've been with my boyfriend for 9 years but over the past few years have realized I'm intensely attracted to women, so much so that I find myself being grumpy and resentful of my nice guy.
I fell deeply in love with a close female friend last winter and we ended up cutting off contact, without having an affair, because, like you, I won't cheat and I also do care about my guy.
I've joined a support group and read zillions of books, including Joanne Fleischer's amazing book called "Married Women Who Love Women".
Check out this earlier post of mine, which has TONS of amazing replies and insights:
http://dailystrength.org/component/option,com_joomlaboard/Itemid,53/func,view/viewtype,discussion/id,949472/catid,917/
Take care, Ave