i'm new here...hoping to get some views from anyone who has had a simular experience or just has some good advice. i've been married 12 years to a great guy who happens to be very open minded to my bisexuality..my confusion is not with the bisexuality, i've had relationships with both men and women leading up to our marriage and am very comfortable with who i am..never in our entire marriage has there been a question as to whether or not i wanted to be with him....until now. i've been having what you might call an *emotional affair* with another bi woman (also married) online..it didn't start out that way...at least i never intended for it to be..i didn't even know she was bi for awhile after we started talking...we became fast friends, lots in common,we've talked about the most intimate of details of our lives...and now i've found myself thinking about her all the time....our feelings are mutual however we hold back (i.e.: meeting up although we've exchanged pics) because of our marriages...this is killing me..i've never been in this position before and its definetly affecting my attitude towards my husband and our marriage in general..i just don't know what to do...do i stop talking to her and risk loosing the best friendship i ever had? how do i come to grips with this? him and i have had 3 somes but i've never been unfaithful to him i'm just not that kind...but this feels like to good of a thing to let go of. i dont know what to do.