I guess you have to decide what you want. It sounds like what you don't want is a single monogamous relationship, that isn't a judgement BTW, I am not saying that is a bad thing, just a thing. Maybe its not the sort of relationship that you need, perhaps something more open would suit you?

For me I get the odd grass is greener thing. Being with a woman would do this that or the other for me. The reality I believe is that a woman can't validate or fulfill me more than my current partner.

nonmonogamy isn't an option for me in my relationship, but I don't know what your boundaries are.

I'm also married & would eventually like a gf. I've had a couple of brief online relationships, but, nothing in person yet. Some women are able to have both a husband & a gf. It's not a threesome situation, they're separate relationships. Maybe that could work for you. How open minded is your husband?

im with a man whos 14 years younger than me but im ivolved with this women ive know for the last ten years but shes ok that im with a man and hes ok im with another women infact those 2 get along fine. you just gotta do what comes to mind and be honest with your partner.

i myself am married but am bisexual. my husband kind of knew before i did. he is good about it, thats our lifestyle.if you feel you are bi talk to him about it, be honest. you can't change your feelings of who you are.

Have you talked to your husband about your feelings for women?He may understand and not feel threatened if you had an affair with another women.It is every mans fantasy to be with two women.Maybe you could eventualy include him if you found the right women.

I hear ya. I'm with a man who I plan to marry, but I really want to be with a woman. I miss having someone who understands me... I say keep it to yourself