Bisexuality Support Group

Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.

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is this true

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ryt im 14 and yestoday i told my mum i was bisexual and she was fine with and everything coz her friend is gay n blah blah blah so thats good but today she said to me you cant really say your bisexual because you havnt done anything with a girl well i have like kissed n snogged girls befor but i havnt done anything more then that and she said that i cant really say im bisexual till i have done more with a girl is this true ???
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I think if you are sexually and mentally attracted to girls..you are bisexual. Regardless of what you have done
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it doesnt matter how much experience you have, the only thing that matters is how you feel. if you are attracted to both guys and girls and you can see yourself in a relationship with either, than you are bisexual, you are going to have this question linger over ur head for a while but it all comes down to who you want to be.
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I would be wary about labelling yourself so young. I was totally in love at 17- with a man- with no thoughts of girls ever. Now much older, my attraction to women is much stronger than men and I have no idea why. What is, is. Great to see you can talk to your mum for support. I'd just see where life takes you. Good luck.
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I agree 100% percent with everyone here.
No need to label yourself. Just listen to yourself and what you want, which may change at different times in your life, and you'll be fine.
I'm been with men only, but realized only 3 years ago I was also attracted to women, by the way, and I'm 45!
Great that your mom is supportive.
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thanx for all ur comments it helps a lot :)
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I've only kissed a couple girls but I know without a shadow of a doubt that I'm bi. It's about attraction, not experience.

How does a straight virgin know she's straight??? Same thing.
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