Bisexuality Support Group

Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.

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is it ok to be bisexual

deleted_user
deleted_user
my question is is it ok to be bi most think your gay or strait what if you neither and you bi is that ok ive talked with my brother about it he told me just to love who i love and it dont matter if they guy or girl is he right does it not matter i know society wants us to be strait so i wonder if i should go with the opisite sex even if i dont want to well to me this is al pretty confusing worrying about people accepting me and liking me for who i am and not what i am its hard does anyone else struggle like this between who you are and what society wants from you just wondering by the way im glad i found this group its great to know im not alone
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deleted_user
i have to say that before you go with either or anyone you need to accept yourself for who YOU are and be ok with it. discover who you are truly and be proud of it. 'what' you are IS 'who' you are.. and if people can't accept you for it then they are not people you should associate with.. its the ones who support you, and love you, and care about you no matter what orientation you are that you hold tight to...and let go of the ones who judge.

if i ask myself is it ok that i'm bi?? my answer is always HELL YES!!! and i don't give a rats ass what anyone else thinks!...

accept who you are braindead.......
kcjones
kcjones
It is definitely okay!
jess92
jess92
If no one likes me for who I am they can go fuck themselves. I been through alot and if they dont like me they dont like me. Im confused on all this myself too. I have a gf and a bf and I am just having fun till I see whitch one I want to be with forever. Im still young and I have the time Idk how old you are but if you are still kinda young just go with it for a while and see what you like most when the time comes youll know it. Thats the advice I been givin and I went with it and it seems to work. Jessica.
jess92
jess92
And yes its fine to be bisexual.
capemark313
capemark313
Yes accept yourself fro who you are. And stay that way. I was all comfortable being a bisexual until I was 26 then I thought because I was attracted to both men and women I should cave in to society's expectations and lead the heterosexual lifestyle. Fast forward 26 years. I spent a lifetime struggling with my sexuality because I never was able to eliminate my same sex attraction.

I finally accepted myself as a bisexual 18 months ago. I am still happily married but I dont have this big weight of hiding who I really am. I have very few regrets in life but I wish that I had the courage to live life openly as a bisexual male right from day one.

As others have already said go for it dont your feelings about what others might think stop you from being who you are. Its not easy being a bisexual even in todays world but it beats the pain that comes from trying to live life as someone you are not.

You have the wisdom to be questioning your life path in advance which provides you a terrific opportunity to get it right.
Mark
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deleted_user
Hi, I totally understand how you feel. I am very confused about what I want. I have never been with another woman sexually but have gone through a lot of years of doubting if its a man or woman i want. Because of my uncertainties and anxieties about what i want, i have now got to the stage of running away from relationships from men for fear that it wont work or that they wont accept me if I am bi-sexual and it causes me great anxiety worrying if a partner will accpet me for who i am, so the fear is that bad that i tend to avoid relationships but i dont want to as i have a big void in my life. Yes I so strongly want to be able to be honest with people about my feelings without having this big fear of rejection. And yes it does seem most people just think of people as bing straight or gay and dont understand bi-sexuality so even though I may not have been helpful, sorry, I do understand how you feel but hopefully someone on here may be able to give us some good advice on this.

I guess all we can do is go with our hearts and be kind to ourselves. WE CANT HELP HOW WE FEEL CAN WE. GOOD LUCK.
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