Bisexuality Support Group

Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.

1,740 Members
3,748 Posts
0 Online
Relationships & Sexuality
/ Bisexuality Support Group

im bi and having a baby

deleted_user
deleted_user
im scared cause im having a baby and im totally bi i know i am. all i really ever think about is women but it seems to easy to approuch a man more then it is to approuch a women. but i cant go near another man cause i allready have one. so i was wondering how is it that other women get the courage to go up to another women .i find it easier to go to a rave or something while i'm high on something but since im having a baby i know its wrong to go to raves so i stopped the drugs or shall i say slowed down on them so thats another story but yeah and my boyfriend who is the father of my baby doesnt support me to much he thinks it cheating on him to get my needs met with another women and gets jealous of the idea and everything, so i think i'm starting to find myself filled with hatred cause he wont let me do what i want and get my needs met or if theres any proper terms of saying it.

can anyone help me please. thank you
deleted_user
deleted_user
It sounds like you're in an extremely challenging situation and could use some counseling and support to completely cut the drugs out of your life, deal with raising a baby without the full support of a partner, and deal with the growing negative feelings towards your partner and your frustrations about your own sexuality. Perhaps you can find some free or low-cost counseling in your city. You look very young and I think you have a rough road ahead, but right now be sure to get all of the drugs out of your body so that your baby can have the best chance of being healthy.
Take care of yourself.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Your only 17,your whole life is waiting for you to stand up,and take control!It's gona be a challenge,you will be a new mom soon.You'll feel unworthy ,scared,blahh,blahh blahh.Point being ,you will get the hang.It's now time to recognize, you can make a difference.It's not about the past ,or who led you there.It's about where you are headed,and who you choose to take with you.You need to take care of the child that is sent to you from God let him/her grow strong.The answers your looking for will come as you grow older,wiser and more patient.
deleted_user
deleted_user
No offense but isn't it like cheating on him when you're trying to be with someone else, regardless of gender.
deleted_user
deleted_user
it depends on the people madison. ive had boyfriend sthat thought of it as chaeating so i didnt do anything with any girls while i was with them adn ive had boyfriends that were ok with it as long as they knew so i did. like my fiance right now. he doesnt mind if im intimate with any girls just as long as he is told.
Posts You May Be Interested In
  • GrassIsGreen

    acknowlodging

    Posted by: GrassIsGreen
    Last Reply: GrassIsGreen
    15
    I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
  • irishwriter

    come unwind in the bp lounge

    Posted by: irishwriter
    Last Reply: irishwriter
    7904
    theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??