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Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.

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How to tell if a woman is Bi or Lesbian?

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I have always been bisexual but I have a hard time telling if a woman i am talking to is bi or lesbian. I always 2nd guess myself. I think that the girl is just nice and wants to be a friend. I am go up to guys and ask for there number but i have not been able to do that with a woman.

Does anyone have any pointers??

Thanks
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Acctually no, I always wonder the same thing. Which makes it hard for woman to meet woman, unless it's online, or a friend of a friend type deal.
I find that most woman you meet think the same way, and usually arent sure if your into women either,so most of the time everything is usually started out as just friends.
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I think this is the bane of every queer woman's existence; how to tell if another woman is into women. Honestly, there's no real way of knowing from first meeting someone, not unless they have some kind of visible sign on, you meet them at a LGBT event or something along those lines.
I know it can be nerve wrecking especially when you meet someone, you start to really like them and then you discover that they find the idea of two women together disgusting.
As Toriee said start out just as friends just to see where her head is at and how she responds to the idea. Even if she isn't bi or a lesbian she may be open to it with the right woman.
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