Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
Okay, so I'm pretty out-as a lesbian. I first came out years ago as bi, but then my feelings for men almost disappeared and I came out as lesbian. I never did have a real relationship with a woman though-frankly, I was too unstable to be in any kind of relationship! Now I'm doing better and my sex drive is through the roof and I'm starting to be attracted to men again! So I guess I really am bi, but how do I come out when I'm already known as lesbian? I'm still more attracted to women, but I feel that if I met the right guy I could give him a chance too... To be honest, I'm a little sad that I'm rediscovering this part of myself-there's a sisterhood that I love that goes with lesbianism that I haven't found with bisexuality. *sigh* Life is so difficult!
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Also I dont think being "so femme" means you are not a lesbian.. I know a lot of ladies who are gold star lesbians, and more femme than I am. You can not help who you are physically/emotionally attracted to. Just make sure you are happy, and if things change several times down the road, embrace them, learn from everything & live your life :)
Don't worry about your friends, they'll get used to seeing you with who ever you want to be seen with. If not to bad so sad for them.
Someone close to me has revealed to me he is bisexual, but has sworn me to secrecy, and doesn't want to "come out." I understand in part but I also find it strange in part. I thought it was hurtful not to "come out" for the person who is not straight, because you can't be yourself. But he swears it's not necessary.
kcjones, is it because you feel that if your friends see you flirting with a man, they will think you've been lying about your sexuality? I can kind of understand that, but I agree with the sentiments of the others: your real friends may be confused for a while, but will probably just be happy for you if you are happy.
Maybe if some people are talking about a cute guy, for example, you could chime in and say, "Hey, he is kinda cute!" Just make some jokes about it; people can't frown when they're laughing.