Hey sweetie well im a gay guy i just joined the bi sexual community to see if i could help with questions such as yours!

it wasnt easy for me telling my mom i was gay even though me and my mum have a really good realationship. You just dont know how parents are going to react.
all i will say is im so glad i told my mum, and she told me she loved me no matter what. I guess id hope all parents would be this understanding but i know in real life not all people are as lucky as i was! But sometimes youve gotta bite the bullet and do it, sometimes it takes some parents a little while to get used to the idea so the best thing really is when you tell them, give them time afterwards to get used to this!!! who knows you might even be totally surprised and they may not even mind! I hope what ever you decide its good news for you ok xxx

hey stackie dont worry about your parents disowning you at some point theyed get over it. I was your age when i found out i was bi. But to people like us it just becomes natural after awhile your no different then anyone else. For at this point just except you for you and when you feel ready to come out than do it. I didnt come out to my parents until i was 25 thats when i was ready to. So just try to be patient with your self.

thankyou both. and yeah girlwho, i feel completely normal around my friends, but my mum is always pointing out guys to me and telling me my brothers friends would be good for me, but i kind of prefer girls, but im still attracted to some guys, and its hard for me to explain to her without her going weird with me. i know shed support me i guess its just hard. i think i might wait until if by chance i get a girlfriend and we feel its right :)

way before i told my mom, she told me that if i went bi or lesbian that she would love me no matter what. but i still couldn't tell her then. finally when i was 14 going on 15 i told her that i was bi and that i had known since i was a little kid. she sayed that she loved me and would be there for me if i ever changed to les. my dad on the other hand was a lot harder to tell. but i was forced to in front of my counciler. he didn't really know how to react and he doesn't think that i am what i am. he keeps telling me that it's a phase but i knew it wasn't. he still doesn't know how to react but i just don't care what he thinks anymore. my mom has been my mom and father when i was growing up. so that is how i came out to them. hope things work out for you.

way before i told my mom, she told me that if i went bi or lesbian that she would love me no matter what. but i still couldn't tell her then. finally when i was 14 going on 15 i told her that i was bi and that i had known since i was a little kid. she sayed that she loved me and would be there for me if i ever changed to les. my dad on the other hand was a lot harder to tell. but i was forced to in front of my counciler. he didn't really know how to react and he doesn't think that i am what i am. he keeps telling me that it's a phase but i knew it wasn't. he still doesn't know how to react but i just don't care what he thinks anymore. my mom has been my mom and father when i was growing up. so that is how i came out to them. hope things work out for you.

I asked my mom what she would think if I liked guys and gurls, if she'd still love me, she said yes, she'd alwayse love me. My parents r open minded, I told my mom first then I just busted outa me. My dad was a bit shocked, but he got over it.