okay... there's this guy that i've been friends with for years, and he liked me for a long time, but i never liked him. a little over a year ago, he kind of hinted that he wanted to start something with me, and i pretty much dodged the subject because i didn't like him romantically.

then, he started dating a girl that I know, and i suddenly got jealous and wanted him. (i know...) this was all before I realized I was bi.

I finally got over the jealousy thing, and I started hanging out with his new girlfriend, and i found out we have a lot in common. we really hit it off, and we are now really good friends. The problem is that now i think i not only have a crush on her, i think i'm in love with her. she sits in front of me in calculus, and i ache for her. The thing is, she's dating my best friend (who has had a crush on me forever) and I really enjoy spending time with her.

I don't even know if she's remotely interested in girls, or me, and even if she were, I wouldn't want to hurt my friend by stealing his girlfriend. I don't know how much longer I can keep all these feelings inside. I don't know what to do.