
Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.

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okay... there's this guy that i've been friends with for years, and he liked me for a long time, but i never liked him. a little over a year ago, he kind of hinted that he wanted to start something with me, and i pretty much dodged the subject because i didn't like him romantically.
then, he started dating a girl that I know, and i suddenly got jealous and wanted him. (i know...) this was all before I realized I was bi.
I finally got over the jealousy thing, and I started hanging out with his new girlfriend, and i found out we have a lot in common. we really hit it off, and we are now really good friends. The problem is that now i think i not only have a crush on her, i think i'm in love with her. she sits in front of me in calculus, and i ache for her. The thing is, she's dating my best friend (who has had a crush on me forever) and I really enjoy spending time with her.
I don't even know if she's remotely interested in girls, or me, and even if she were, I wouldn't want to hurt my friend by stealing his girlfriend. I don't know how much longer I can keep all these feelings inside. I don't know what to do.
then, he started dating a girl that I know, and i suddenly got jealous and wanted him. (i know...) this was all before I realized I was bi.
I finally got over the jealousy thing, and I started hanging out with his new girlfriend, and i found out we have a lot in common. we really hit it off, and we are now really good friends. The problem is that now i think i not only have a crush on her, i think i'm in love with her. she sits in front of me in calculus, and i ache for her. The thing is, she's dating my best friend (who has had a crush on me forever) and I really enjoy spending time with her.
I don't even know if she's remotely interested in girls, or me, and even if she were, I wouldn't want to hurt my friend by stealing his girlfriend. I don't know how much longer I can keep all these feelings inside. I don't know what to do.

deleted_user
confide in ur bestfriend(if he knows about ur sexuality) and explain to him whats happened. He should understand that you like this girl but that you havent made a move and will respect u for it and help u get over her. al the luck in the world to u

deleted_user
How many people know that you're bi now?

deleted_user
i haven't told anyone i'm bi yet.
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