Here's something that's a little confusing to me, what's the difference between being bisexual and having bisexual tendencies? To have "tendencies" does that mean that you engage in bisexual behavior once in a blue moon but initially your straight/gay? I mean, what makes a feeling or a behavior a "tendency"? There are people who say "Oh I'm straight/gay but I have bisexual tendencies". How come you don't hear people say "I have straight tendencies" or "I have some gay tendencies."? Or is it possible that claiming to have "bisexual tendencies" is just another way of not coming out an claiming to be bisexual? What are your thoughts.