Hi
Im a new guy on the block here so here it goes. I have always been attracted to women and I was married for almost 13 years a wile back ( divorce almost 20 years now ) I raised my daughter on my own since she was 7 ( shes 25 now and lives on her own now ) Ive had a number of relationships over the years with other women and for what ever reason they didnt work out. Now, the reason for posting is that as the years go on I am finding myself thinking what it would be like to be with a guy as well. I guess Ive noticed guys over the years but have ignored my feelings as just a passing thought. But now I guess im just a little more comfortable with who I have become so im even more curious as to what it would be like to be intimate with a guy. I guess I should be clear that I still am attracted to girls but I think Im beginning to notice guy as well. Any feedback would go a long way.

Peace
Busdweller

when i first started marturbating, around age 12/13, my fantasies seemed to be split pretty evenly between men and women.
as i got older, that didn't change but i dated women exclusively.
finally, after my first marriage imploded, i took advantage of my situation to start meeting guys.
yes, i was with some sexually. but it was also about feeling comfortable in their company.
so for a bit i felt like maybe i had found some place for me, living between straight and gay - being bi.
then i found myself involved in a relationship with a woman. a serious relationship. so i gave up the guy relationships.
moved onto a nother woman, married. not happy. acted out through affairs.
we're now divorcing so i can finally make a real commitment to explore both sides of my sexuality.
even told my parents.

Hey there,
im 16 and i like girls and oys but i just cant find it in myself to accept myself but see i dream of having children and getting married but i just like men aswel.l and find it hard and i cant make up my mind.
so you are like future of me!
But you shouldnt be ashamed of having children and a waife you should just tell your wife and she should be able to accept u but u shouldnt have anal sex with a man as that would be the same as cheating with your wife with another women!
But good luck!!!

hi am the same as uam also just coming out as been bi but ive not had sex yet but love to try i kep thinking of a man cock in my mouth and cumming all over my face does that sounf normal to u

if u are asking how do you getdick even when u r married, then all i have to say is tell ur wife to fuck u wit a dildo

I just joined this group recently. I was hesitant to do so because of fear of non acceptance with others.I have only had oral sex with men, the threat of sexual disease discouraged me always. This has happened only twice in the recent past.I use to search out other men more often,but my life has changed.I always feel guilty after such encounters.Like you, I do not think this is fair to my wife,so I limit my encounters.I find a fit male body very attractive and sensual.Being with another man,feeling his penis getting hard and bringing him to orgasm is a rush.

you need to to cum out to your wife she will except it or she wont,if she excepts it prehaps you could go swinging together, ive been married twice and been in and out of relationships all mylife with woman but never cum out until this year, i know i dont want a full commitment with a guy, so i have waited and have met quite a few woman thats will except me for who i am, i am current just started a relationship with a woman who is a swinger her self, it is still early days yet,you do need to to be honest and open to your partner or it will just keep digging away at you, i hope this will help

My first comment is that shame and guilt are the most useless and potentially destructive feelings that man(kind) has.

How can you enjoy it? Well, don't we enjoy anything that we find pleasurable? Some people find cigarettes pleasurable, others find them disgusting. Neither group is right or wrong, it's just that their bodies, in some chemical-emotional dance that goes on in the brain, find x to be great, or x to be awful.

There is no use in beating yourself up over who you are. I wish that I could understand how you're feeling, but I've never judged myself on this issue (thankfully for my therapist, I have other issues on which I judge myself).

i came out to my friends while in a christian academy. talk about pressure, haha.

after some realization, i finally accepted that being bi was just a part of me and not a huge label at all. i decided not to make it who i was. i was a teenager getting good grades to get into a good college. Sure i was horny for cock, but again, im a teenager, haha!

the big "acceptance" was just accepting that its just a little factoid about me. if you dont want others to make a big deal of it, then dont make a big deal of it yourself. People dont think of you as the bi guy as long as you show them that you are more than that. Ya know?

the feeling of shame will go away after you realize this. its gonna be a long process, but all it takes is the right company and thoughts