
Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
Im a new guy on the block here so here it goes. I have always been attracted to women and I was married for almost 13 years a wile back ( divorce almost 20 years now ) I raised my daughter on my own since she was 7 ( shes 25 now and lives on her own now ) Ive had a number of relationships over the years with other women and for what ever reason they didnt work out. Now, the reason for posting is that as the years go on I am finding myself thinking what it would be like to be with a guy as well. I guess Ive noticed guys over the years but have ignored my feelings as just a passing thought. But now I guess im just a little more comfortable with who I have become so im even more curious as to what it would be like to be intimate with a guy. I guess I should be clear that I still am attracted to girls but I think Im beginning to notice guy as well. Any feedback would go a long way.
Peace
Busdweller
as i got older, that didn't change but i dated women exclusively.
finally, after my first marriage imploded, i took advantage of my situation to start meeting guys.
yes, i was with some sexually. but it was also about feeling comfortable in their company.
so for a bit i felt like maybe i had found some place for me, living between straight and gay - being bi.
then i found myself involved in a relationship with a woman. a serious relationship. so i gave up the guy relationships.
moved onto a nother woman, married. not happy. acted out through affairs.
we're now divorcing so i can finally make a real commitment to explore both sides of my sexuality.
even told my parents.
im 16 and i like girls and oys but i just cant find it in myself to accept myself but see i dream of having children and getting married but i just like men aswel.l and find it hard and i cant make up my mind.
so you are like future of me!
But you shouldnt be ashamed of having children and a waife you should just tell your wife and she should be able to accept u but u shouldnt have anal sex with a man as that would be the same as cheating with your wife with another women!
But good luck!!!
How can you enjoy it? Well, don't we enjoy anything that we find pleasurable? Some people find cigarettes pleasurable, others find them disgusting. Neither group is right or wrong, it's just that their bodies, in some chemical-emotional dance that goes on in the brain, find x to be great, or x to be awful.
There is no use in beating yourself up over who you are. I wish that I could understand how you're feeling, but I've never judged myself on this issue (thankfully for my therapist, I have other issues on which I judge myself).
after some realization, i finally accepted that being bi was just a part of me and not a huge label at all. i decided not to make it who i was. i was a teenager getting good grades to get into a good college. Sure i was horny for cock, but again, im a teenager, haha!
the big "acceptance" was just accepting that its just a little factoid about me. if you dont want others to make a big deal of it, then dont make a big deal of it yourself. People dont think of you as the bi guy as long as you show them that you are more than that. Ya know?
the feeling of shame will go away after you realize this. its gonna be a long process, but all it takes is the right company and thoughts