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Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.

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Okay, so it's just perhaps a wish fulfillment in viewing signs and interpreting them in ways that confirm what I hope is "there" emotionally but in reality isn't. I've asked this on Yahoo Answers, and hope that I get a more intelligent discussion here. All I am asking is the benefit of other people's wisdom through their own experiences and insights. Serious replies only please.
So, the question:
What are the signs that even though you know someone leads a heterosexual lifestyle, their behavior may prove some curiousity to "the other side" -or perhaps mild intrigue.
I myself have some suspicions of someone I work with but my brain is already wired to look out for signs, so maybe I'm not such a reliable radar when it comes to these things. Plus, I never noticed it until last year. It became awkward coz suddenly I became of these feelings that there might be some tension...So I choose as much as possible to avoid her...It's difficult however, coz I'm more free and open with others though I don't diss her completely. Perhaps one more chalked down to Crushville City.
So, the question:
What are the signs that even though you know someone leads a heterosexual lifestyle, their behavior may prove some curiousity to "the other side" -or perhaps mild intrigue.
I myself have some suspicions of someone I work with but my brain is already wired to look out for signs, so maybe I'm not such a reliable radar when it comes to these things. Plus, I never noticed it until last year. It became awkward coz suddenly I became of these feelings that there might be some tension...So I choose as much as possible to avoid her...It's difficult however, coz I'm more free and open with others though I don't diss her completely. Perhaps one more chalked down to Crushville City.

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Well,I have a best friend who is heterosexual.I trusted her enough to let her know that I found her attractive without saying it directly.Funny thing ,is her response was that of flattery.She and I have been best friends for a very long time and I would never mess that up by turning the friendship into something more then that.She did eventually let me know that she was curious and if it was something I really wanted from her,she'd be willing.Again,I would not jeapordize or friendship for a one night stand with her.I guess my whole point is if you really want to know how the other person feels(and you trust them!)then maybe it's okay to just ask direct or indirectly.Just use your discretion.I'm babbling on,but I hope in someway I was of some help.
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