Okay, so it's just perhaps a wish fulfillment in viewing signs and interpreting them in ways that confirm what I hope is "there" emotionally but in reality isn't. I've asked this on Yahoo Answers, and hope that I get a more intelligent discussion here. All I am asking is the benefit of other people's wisdom through their own experiences and insights. Serious replies only please.

So, the question:

What are the signs that even though you know someone leads a heterosexual lifestyle, their behavior may prove some curiousity to "the other side" -or perhaps mild intrigue.

I myself have some suspicions of someone I work with but my brain is already wired to look out for signs, so maybe I'm not such a reliable radar when it comes to these things. Plus, I never noticed it until last year. It became awkward coz suddenly I became of these feelings that there might be some tension...So I choose as much as possible to avoid her...It's difficult however, coz I'm more free and open with others though I don't diss her completely. Perhaps one more chalked down to Crushville City.